Choosing Partners
Monday, April 5th, 2010Whether in business or your personal life…
…choosing the right partner is essential.
ATTRACT Opportunities Instead of Pursuing Them…
…Using Counter-Intuitive Thinking
Gaining an Eclectic Education, Step 6 of the 7 Steps to Becoming INVALUABLE, can apply to any activity in which we’re engaged. Phone conversations with two very talented women prove my point.
During both conversations the topic shifted to opportunities they’d had to partner with others in their field. Both of these women had repeatedly declined these offers for one very simple reason, the people approaching them didn’t have the breadth and depth of experience they had.
As one of these women so eloquently stated “If one person is strong and the other weak, the weaker partner will benefit immensely from the association while the stronger partner eventually becomes disgruntled over the inequity of the exchange.” There are other negative outcomes that could occur as well:
- The stronger partner may feel that she is being held back by the weaker partner.
- The weaker partner may feel pressured to take action that she feels ill-equipped to handle.
- The weaker partner may feel that she’s doing all the grunt work while the stronger partner enjoys all the fun work.
The list is endless.
It’s counter-intuitive, but good potential partners are those who are enjoying similar levels of success on their own. Combine that success with similar values, similar dreams and overlapping, yet distinctive capabilities and odds are good that the two of you will enjoy even greater success as partners.
If you want to distinguish yourself, become a person who learns something new in all activities in which your engaged. Then share what you’ve learned with others. This ability will make you INVALUABLE to those around you and, in the process, attract opportunities so that you don’t have to pursue them.
Attracting opportunities is only the beginning. Visit www.pricingforprofitbook.com to discover how to get compensated well for the value you provide or check out my latest book, Pricing for Profit. Enjoy!






