Missing Facts?
Monday, July 27th, 2009When you don’t have all the facts…
…be very careful what you say.
When asked about Harvard professor Henry Gates’ arrest by Cambridge police, President Obama said, “I don’t have all the facts…”
Subsequent actions indicate he wishes he’d stopped there. The rest of his answer had people taking sides on the debate over race relations in this country. Having observed President Obama for some time now, I’ve seen the effort he puts into building bridges between competing factions in every arena in which he operates. To lob a grenade onto an existing bridge, especially a tenuous structure like race relations in the United States, just isn’t his style.
Each of us can relate to President Obama’s faux pas this past week. Who among us hasn’t been asked to comment on things about which we have little, if any, information?
Fortunately for us, our missteps don’t happen in front of millions of viewers. What can we learn from the President’s comments?
Let’s begin with an exploration of why we, human beings, have this natural tendency to comment on things that we know little about. Here are a few thoughts:
- we enjoy the fact that others value our opinion
- we don’t want to be perceived as dodging difficult issues
- we have opinions and we want to be heard
Let’s be honest, we’re flattered when others seek our opinion. We sense that they hope to learn something from us. Human nature being what it is, we don’t like to disappoint people who think highly of us. So we wade (or jump headlong) into those murky waters of incomplete information. Unfortunately, our lack of knowledge of all the facts usually prevents us from providing any real value to those who seek our opinion.
The previous scenario assumes that the other party’s interest in our opinion is genuine. That isn’t always the case. There are times when we feel trapped by a question. We sense that no matter what we say, our words are going to come back to haunt us. “No comment” is going to be as damning as whatever else we might say. I suspect this was the position in which President Obama found himself during the press conference.
Finally, despite the fact that we don’t have complete information on the question posed, we often have thoughts on related issues and we want those opinions heard. All too often these opinions are dismissed because they’re not relevant to the question being posed. Not only are our efforts for naught, we risk being viewed as someone who either isn’t paying attention or is a little slow on the uptake. Either way we lose credibility in the sight of those involved in the discussion.
So what’s the solution? None of the outcomes in the three scenarios outlined above does us or our listeners any good. So how do we avoid these pitfalls?
It’s counter-intuitive, but refusing to comment when you have incomplete information is the most effective way to protect yourself and others. You’ll gain respect and enhance your credibility with those who truly value your opinion by saying “I don’t have enough information to add value to this discussion.”
You’ll also minimize the damage that those who are trying to trap you can inflict upon you. It’s much easier to defend a claim that you’re dodging a difficult question when you can honestly say “I don’t know how I can be expected to form a judgment when I don’t have all the facts.” Again, this kind of response enhances your credibility at a time when others seek to diminish it.
Your ideas are also likely to get a better hearing if you say “I don’t have enough information to comment on this particular situation, but I’d be happy to share my thoughts on the broader issue of…” If the listener(s) take you up on this offer, feel free to share your thoughts with them. If they don’t, let them continue the discussion. Either way your integrity and credibility remain intact.
The 7 Steps to Becoming INVALUABLE program is designed to help you see more effective ways of doing business – ways that dramatically improve your bottom line while making your life easier. In today’s blog I used Step 1, Contributory Negligence, to show you how our natural human tendencies create problems for us. I also used Step 4, See Similarities, to show how President Obama’s misstep is one that each of us has made from time to time. Finally, I’m using Step 5, Contrarian Mindset, to show how we can protect ourselves from the dangers of incomplete information. For more information on the 7 Steps to Becoming INVALUABLE visit www.furtwengler.com/7steps.htm.
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